Busting Excuses! Why you truly deserve a boudoir shoot!

Destination Boudoir Photographer | San Diego | Auburn, Ca | Bella Rosa Boudoir Photography

I have been shooting boudoir professionally since 2015.

The Bella Rosa Boudoir Experience has come a long way since then!! In that time, not only have over 1,500 ladies become Bella Rosa Beauties, but we have heard allllllll of the excuses along the way! Self-love is a journey and not everyone is at the same point in that journey. Read that again!! Not everyone is at the same point. Some of these excuses will sound silly to you and some of them may resonate hard… Share this and let me know what excuse you might have or currently are using to stop yourself from having a boudoir shoot. And please remember, YOU CAN DO IT!!!!

“I am not where I want to be weight wise. Orrrrrrrrr I want to lose a little bit more.”

Ladies, listen up!!!! Self-love is a journey and why are you scared to love yourself exactly as you are today? You are beautiful. You are strong. You can do it. Not everyone you see in our photos loves their bodies, actually most of them come to us because they want to love their bodies. You need to trust our process… I always say… Set a date not a weight. You can work on yourself and work towards your goals, but what if you don’t ever reach them? Do you just never deserve a boudoir shoot? That is crazy! Don’t let your weight define you or your experiences in life! Let your first one be the start of your journey or a mid way checkpoint… Yes, I said your first… You will likely want to do another!

“I don’t have any time for myself”

Although I can’t actually change your schedule for you, I can pep talk you through adding me into yours! You DESERVE to take time to yourself. That itself is self-love. So why not come into our studio and enjoy an entire experience that lasts several hours all focused around you! You will leave feeling sore {honestly lol! These poses are a workout!} but so empowered and confident! The next day we have received several emails from significant others thanking us for helping their loved ones actually love themselves. THAT SPEAKS LOUD!! Take the time for yourself, everyone around you will appreciate it too!

“I’ve never felt sexy so a boudoir shoot must not be for me. Orrrrrr I don’t wear lingerie; a boudoir shoot is not for me!”

This is EXACTLY why you SHOULD do a boudoir shoot!! You will leave feeling so sexy, beautiful, and confident. You will wonder why you waited so long and why you let the nerves inside you stop you from such an amazing, life-changing experience! Most of the clients we shoot say they never wear lingerie! Of course some of our clients are obsessed with lingerie and bring in the most amazing pieces, but that is not required or expected! We expect you to come in and let us pull pieces for you from our closet. It has over 300 pieces and ranges from XS-6X so we will for sure have options for you!! No excuses, beauty!!

“A boudoir shoot is an investment and I don’t have the money right now.”

I get it! We have options! Many clients have saved for quite some time to be able to do this experience and get all the luxury products they want. Many of our clients return too for multiple sessions with us! A boudoir session is an investment, but you are investing in yourself. We do offer payment plans that allow you to stretch out your payments. If you reach out for info we can go into details on payment plans or any questions you might have about pricing or our experience!